Thanks for this well-written article, Zahra. I find the analogy of marriage as a conversation to be apt. Even though I am not married myself, I can see the logic in the comparison, as marriage is a journey between husband and wife that doesn't always follow a consistent upward or downward trajectory. However, change in both partners is bound to happen along the way, and being able to find new ways to appreciate the differences between who one's partner was when the marriage began, to the present time, is important to maintaining a contented and harmonious relationship, in my view. Even though the conversation topic may change, being able to appreciate the new topics and interests is a sign of positive growth in a couple's bond, in my view.
Glad you talked about how conversation evolves. In the age of endless memes about how couples change over the years, it’s important to (seriously) discuss the evolution of relationship and discussions - Including the language of silence.
Thanks for this well-written article, Zahra. I find the analogy of marriage as a conversation to be apt. Even though I am not married myself, I can see the logic in the comparison, as marriage is a journey between husband and wife that doesn't always follow a consistent upward or downward trajectory. However, change in both partners is bound to happen along the way, and being able to find new ways to appreciate the differences between who one's partner was when the marriage began, to the present time, is important to maintaining a contented and harmonious relationship, in my view. Even though the conversation topic may change, being able to appreciate the new topics and interests is a sign of positive growth in a couple's bond, in my view.
Beautifully put. Thank you Aamir
Thank you Zahra, and thanks again for this compelling and apt article as well! Definitely something to think about with regards to marriage for sure!
Glad you talked about how conversation evolves. In the age of endless memes about how couples change over the years, it’s important to (seriously) discuss the evolution of relationship and discussions - Including the language of silence.
I neglected to write about silences but they are arguably equally important to master!
what an insightful piece zahra. loved it. and i second this. the art of conversation >> everything else
This is su h a beautiful way to think of love, will we be able to forever keep a conversation going?
I really needed to read this to remind myself of these questions. Thank you!