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اسمأ's avatar

Amazing post!

Walyullah's avatar

Oh, and the explanation of the trait distribution at the extremes was just very well done, like a just right golden crispy buttery naan. You must be very good at statistics and research methods haha.

Walyullah's avatar

This is awesome, splendid!

We (men) really need more simple to understand relational explanations like these with reasonably straightforward actionable steps. I'm single btw, but I see the utility of this curios approach to problem solving with even my mom and my sister. And perhaps even with other men in a way. Like not reacting to the emotional outburst (with men its often an aggressive outburst which instigates a similarly aggressive, defensive response), but trying to see what is it they're trying to say, and then working from there.

What you explained about women scoring high in neuroticism made a lot of sense to me and made me think of situations and conversations I've had in the past two years. It really helps to see the functional reason behind these traits, and after understanding them, using them to your advantage to better work with each other.

Solid work, keep it up! Allahumma barik.

Zahra's avatar

Alhamdulillah, I’m glad it was helpful to you!

Matjaž Horvat's avatar

‘100% of the 100 most aggressive people alive are men, and 100% of the 100 least aggressive people alive are women’

Hmm. I’m sure the first part is true but I’m not entirely convinced the second one is.